pause and take a breather

met up with some friends last weekend for dinner and although it's the usual company that comes every so now and then, the things we talk about changes with time as we move on in our lives but at the same time some things just don't change and that's all the rubbish and unsound things we can talk about.

was out with the old cow before the group of us met and she started talking about how she's gonna be thinking and talking about marriage soon. it's quite funny and unexpected when it comes to relationships because one can bitch and complain about the other but it always ends with loving the feller more.

but love is never my kind of coffee and when time is not on your side, gatherings and meet ups with friends seemed more of an important issue to me then going on dates. and oh my, did i mention that love can be troublesome at times too and that's something i don't want now with all the happenings happening now in my life.

i guess the main thing is the effort that is needed and sometimes it gets really tiring and confusing when the balance is screwed. then comes my attitude, i always do what i like and even my lifestyle seems years ahead; reading and baking and just chilling at a cafe with a good cuppa coffee while watching people go by.

you know they say that people of the different characters are attracted to one another but how true can it be i ask. there must be some similarities i supposed or things will be one hell of a roller coaster ride. but then i guess it's about understanding and going through numerous events in life that binds one to another.

i wanna hike up a hill, take a seat under the shade of a tree and look down upon the city, the streets of cobblestone and roofs of terracotta. people walking along the streets heading to who knows where and the al fresco cafes busy with the morning rush. the market in the city center buzzes with activity yet all is peaceful and serene as relax with the passing breeze.